At first it may seem to you: complete nonsense.
Can I really Manually Erase Fear of Past Trading Losses & Regret that Stuck me Giving a Second Chance?
Ever tried trading and lost?
Feeling stuck with fear & regret?
This surprising mind shifting act will Set You Ready for Your Second Chance in 10 min or less
At first it may seem to you: complete nonsense.
Rewrite fear manually.
Talk to them?
Thank them for the experience?
Sounds strange.
But almost everyone who came and read it…just like you are reading now
And just did it - everything changed for them
Many personally thanks me later - It set them for giving them a second chance
Many later gave me the opportunity to serve them
to work as their trading performance enhancement coach.
What you can do now:
1️. Take a bunch of sticky notes and write out all the fear & regret down to the last penny:
Regrets:
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Regret not sticking to the trading plan.
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Regret over-leveraging and taking on too much risk.
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Regret revenge trading after a loss.
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Regret letting small losses turn into big ones by not setting stop-losses.
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Regret missing out on clear setups due to hesitation (FOMO in reverse).
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Regret listening to 'gurus' or 'hot tips' instead of doing my own analysis.
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Regret using money I couldn't afford to lose.
Fears:
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Fear of losing the remaining capital.
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Fear of never recovering the money already lost.
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Fear of pressing the trade button again (trade-phobia).
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Fear of being a permanent failure in trading.
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Fear of disappointing family or partners.
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Fear that the market is "out to get me."
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Fear that the next trade will wipe out my account.
2. Next on the opposite side to it write honestly, without excuses:
Why do you think it happens to you?
Regrets:
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Regret not sticking to the trading plan→ Emotional decision-making, impulsiveness
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Regret over-leveraging and taking on too much risk → Greed, chasing quick profits
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Regret revenge trading after a loss → Need to 'win back' money, inability to walk away
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Regret letting small losses turn into big ones by not setting stop-losses → Hope, denial, fear of realizing a loss, poor risk management
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Regret missing out on clear setups due to hesitation (FOMO in reverse) → Over-analysis, lack of confidence, fear of being wrong
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Regret listening to 'gurus' or 'hot tips' instead of doing my own analysis → lack of conviction in own strategy
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Regret using money I couldn't afford to lose → Desperation
Fears:
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Fear of losing the remaining capital → Psychological
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Fear of never recovering the money already lost → lack of a clear plan to recover
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Fear of pressing the trade button again (trade-phobia)→memory of pain
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Fear of being a permanent failure in trading →linking self-worth to trading results
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Fear of disappointing family or partners→ Financial strain,hiding the extent of losses
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Fear that the market is "out to get me." →feeling powerless against external forces
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Fear that the next trade will wipe out my account→ History of poor risk management,
3️. Admit the fact:
These fears and regrets have already served me.
Then - the most important thing.
Say out loud to each sticky note:
Thank you for the experience. I return everything with respect and peace.
After that, tear up or burn the sheet.
This is not magic.
This is a symbol of the fact that you no longer live in yesterday.
What changes inside:
The brain stops seeing fear & regret of past trading losses as punishment.
Fear dissolves, clarity appears.
Instead of the thought “I’m stuck,” the thought “I’m moving forward” is turned on.
Energy and focus move from fear to flow.
Do it today.
Take a bunch of sticky notes.
Write.
Give thanks.
Tear it up.
Create a new assembly point where you are not fearful to the past,
but the master of the future.
And consolidate the situation again.
Who I Am, and Why I Know Mastering Inner Game of Trading with Alligator Approach Works
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“Why do I panic even when I know my setup?”
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“Why do I break rules only when real money is on the line?”
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“Why can’t I trade like I know what to do?”
To trade really well, you need two things: the 'outer game' and the 'inner game.'
Almost everyone who tried trading but fail and now fearful to give them a second chance has one thing common.
They started the trading with outer game.
The outer game is all about the basics: which market to trade, what strategy to use, your trading plan, and how much money you can risk for a certain goal.
But it's usually easier to know these rules than to actually follow them.
Then when they actually place few trade, they start wondering, " why I make bad decisions, even I knew it was wrong" or "Why do I keep making the same mistake that costs me more money than planned" even though I know what supposed to do?
And they start struggling to stop their behavior.
This is the 'inner game,' which happens in your mind. It's played against problems like losing focus, feeling nervous, and doubting yourself. You'll realize that unless you master this inner game, it will stop you from reaching your best trading performance.
When you master the inner game, you'll see new possibilities and enter a 'flow state' where overcoming these mental hurdles becomes easy for you.